the meaning of the name

Adrian
Dark one, from the sea : Latin

Very much the individual you have enormous energy and vision and must find a suitable use for your talents. You have great potential for success in business if you can guard against indecision and worry. Your generous nature means that you are never short of friends and with cooperation your relationships can be very rewarding. Perseverance and firm decision making will ensure you achieve your objectives.

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what a powerful kiss (lol)

As seen on News of the Weird.....

Park Hyatt hotel maid Louise Kelsey, 58, testified in August in Melbourne, Australia, that she was kissed against her will in 2001 by a hotel guest (an Uruguayan soccer player in town for a World Cup match) and suffered a post-traumatic stress disorder that led to her being declared legally blind in 2002. Though a doctor for the defense derided it as "the most powerful kiss in history," the hotel's insurer agreed to its liability in October and said it would negotiate the money amount.

[Daily Telegraph (Sydney), 9-1-05; Herald Sun (Sydney), 10-7-05]

Nokia to Buy Intellisync for $430 Million

(As seen on http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20051116/ap_on_hi_te/finland_nokia_intellisync_1)

HELSINKI, Finland - Nokia Corp. said Wednesday it is paying $430 million to acquire Intellisync Corp., a provider of wireless e-mail service for cellular carriers, adding to the mobile phone maker's growing arsenal of products to compete with BlackBerry.

The deal comes just two months after Nokia barged into the increasingly crowded field of BlackBerry rivals by becoming the first major handset maker to announce its own brand of mobile e-mail service — essentially becoming a rival to the U.S. company it is now acquiring.
Nokia is offering $5.25 per share in cash for each share of Intellisync, which provides mobile access to e-mail and other desktop information to about 500,000 users through wireless carriers under their own brand names.

The buyout price is below what Intellisync's shares were fetching before the deal announced, and so the stock sagged 41 cents to $5.13 in Wednesday morning's Nasdaq trading, down 7.4 percent. Nokia's U.S. shares slipped 11 cents to $16.92 on the
New York Stock Exchange.

The transaction is expected to be completed in the first quarter of 2006.
Nokia announced in September that it was entering the mobile e-mail market with its own application, Nokia Business Center, but said the new service would join rather than replace the existing lineup of mobile e-mail and productivity options available on Nokia devices. Those include BlackBerry from Research in Motion Ltd., GoodLink from Good Technology Inc., and applications from Seven Networks Inc. and Visto Corp.

Intellisync's services are generally rebranded by carriers. For example, the product is sold as Wireless Sync by Verizon Wireless, a joint venture between Verizon Communications Inc. and Vodafone Group PLC.

Write the freakin' Book!!!

This goes out to my boy John that has a lot of issues in his life. This will be my personal plea to him. I am not putting him on blast for negative reasons, just to help him out.

On behalf of the Team that works with you and the Peanut Gallery (my friends)...

YOU REALLY DO NEED TO WRITE YOUR LIFE STORY! QUIT BS'ING AROUND WITH IT AND MAKE SOME MONEY! IF YOU NEED HELP, ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS ASK AND WE WILL HELP YOU OUT!

Actual stupid questions asked

Actual stupid questions asked

The below excerpts appeared in the Salt Lake Tribune. They were taken from real court records.

Now doctor, isn't it true that when a person dies in his sleep, in most cases he just passes quietly away and doesn't know anything about it until the next morning?

Q: What happened then?
A: He told me, he says, "I have to kill you because you can identify me."
Q: Did he kill you?

Was it you or your brother that was killed in the war?

The youngest son, the 20-year-old, how old is he?

Q: She had three children, right?
A: Yes.
Q: How many were boys?
A: None.
Q: Were there any girls?

Were you alone or by yourself?

Q: I show you Exhibit 3 and ask you if you recognize that picture?
A: That's me.
Q: Were you present when that picture was taken?

Were you present in court this morning when you were sworn in?

Q: You say that the stairs went down to the basement?
A: Yes.
Q: And these stairs, did they go up also?

Q: Now then, Mrs. Johnson, how was your first marriage terminated?
A: By death.
Q: And by whose death was it terminated?

Q: Do you know how far pregnant you are now?
A: I'll be three months on March 12th.
Q: Apparently then, the date of conception was around January 12th?
A: Yes.
Q: What were you doing at that time?

Do you have any children or anything of that kind?

Was that the same nose you broke as a child?

Q: Mrs. Jones, do you believe you are emotionally stable?
A: I used to be.
Q: How many times have you committed suicide?

So, you were gone until you returned?

You don't know what it was, and you didn't know what it looked like, but can you describe it?

Q: Have you lived in this town all your life?
A: Not yet.

A Texas attorney, realizing he was on the verge of unleashing a stupid question, interrupted himself and said, "Your Honor, I'd like to strike the next question."

Q: Do you recall approximately the time that you examined that body of Mr. Huntington at St. Mary's Hospital?
A: It was in the evening. The autopsy started about 5:30 P.M.
Q: And Mr. Huntington was dead at the time, is that correct?
A: No, you idiot, he was sitting on the table wondering why I was performing an autopsy on him!

divorce, isnt it??

(taken from News of the Weird)

Italy's highest appeals court ruled in March that a divorcing man would have to pay alimony to his ex-wife because he had refused to have sex with her for seven years as punishment for challenging him in a family argument. (Whatever point the husband was trying to make was not disclosed.)

I would like to know something:

why do women argue and fight over men online? I have read a few blogs on Yahoo and I came across one in particular where the estranged wife and the new girlfriend was 'arguing' online. The wife basically put the guy on blast and the girlfriend is calling him 'her future husband'. To me, the situation is pretty childish. I would rather see the 2 girls blasting the guy out than blasting on each other... but that is just me.

CIA Test

CIA test

Three guys are applying for job with the CIA. They got all the way to the final test. So the first guy walks into the directors office and sits down. The director reaches in his desk and pulls out a pistol. Lays it on his desk in front of the guy. Tells him, "This test is to test your loyalty. Take this gun and go up the stairs and go into the first room on your right. Your wife will be in there. Put a bullet in her head." The guy looks at him and says,"no way." So the director says, "You fail."

The next guy comes in. The director tells him the same thing. Guy picks up the gun and head for the room. Comes back about 15 minutes later. Tells the director that he just couldn`t go through with it. The director says, "you fail."

So now the third guy comes in, same scene. Guy heads up to the room. The director hears 3 shots, followed by a whole lot of ruckus (glass breaking, furniture getting smashed). Guy comes back in all beat up and his clothes tore up. The director goes, "What happened to you?" Guy replies, "After three shots I realized that there were blanks in the gun so I had to choke her to death."

Student Insults

Student Insults

It's impossible to believe that the sperm that created this child beat out 1,000,000 others.

The wheel is turning but the hamster is definitely dead.

If this student were any more stupid, he'd have to be watered twice a week.

The gates are down, the lights are flashing, but the train isn't coming.

When your daughter's IQ reaches 50, she should sell.

The student has a "full six-pack" but lacks the plastic thing to hold it all together.

Your son sets low personal standards and then consistently fails to achieve them.

Your son is depriving a village somewhere of an idiot.

I would not allow this student to breed.

Since my last report, your child has reached rock bottom and has started to dig.

Another funny - Its Dark

A woman takes a lover during the day, while her husband is at work. Not knowing that her 9-year-old son is hiding in the closet, her husband comes home unexpectedly, so she puts the lover in the closet with the little boy.
The little boy says, "Dark in here."
The man says, "Yes it is."
Boy - "I have a baseball."
Man - "That's nice."
Boy - "Want to buy it?"
Man - "No, thanks."
Boy - "My dad's outside."
Man - "OK, how much?"
Boy - "$250."

In the next few weeks, it happens again that the boy and the mom's lover are in the closet together.
Boy - "Dark in here."
Man - "Yes, it is."
Boy - "I have a baseball glove."
The lover, remembering the last time, asks the boy, "How much?"
Boy - "$750."
Man - "Fine."

A few days later, the father says to the boy, "Grab your glove. Let's go outside and toss the baseball back and forth."
The boy says, "I can't. I sold them."

The father asks, "How much did you sell them for?"
The son says "$1,000."
The father says, "That's terrible to overcharge your friends like that. That is way more than those two things cost. I'm going to take you to church and make you confess."They go to the church and the father makes the little boy sit in theconfessional booth and he closes the door.

The boy says, "Dark in here."
The priest says, "Don't start that s... again."

Funny Joke

A driver is stuck in a traffic jam on the highway. Nothing is moving.

Suddenly a man knocks on the window. The driver rolls down his window and asks, "What happened?""Terrorists kidnapped President Bush and are asking for a $10 million ransom. Otherwise they are going to douse him with gasoline and set him on fire. We are going from car to car to take up a collection."

The driver asks, "How much is everyone giving on average?"

"About a gallon."

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Quiet Storm

Famous Hauntings

Since this is the time of year for ghouls and goblins, i thought that I get everyone into the spirit of things and tell you about some famous hauntings

The REAL Ghosts in Disneyland's Haunted Mansion
by catmz@theshadowlands.net

Hundreds of people visit the Haunted Mansion in Disneyland every day. In fact, it holds a record for being the most visited Dark ride and Disney Imagineers worked hard using old magician tricks to create these illusions. What they may not have known was that there are now several real ghosts haunting the place.

In the early 1950s Walt Disney and one of his top Imagineers Ken Anderson began working on the idea of a walk through haunted house. The inspiration came from a Disney cartoon about the Headless Horseman. The visitor was to enter a New England style house and follow the story through the attraction until it reached a climax in a graveyard scene.

Anyone who has visited the attraction knows that ideas changed and Disney and Anderson developed a New Orleans style house that the visitor rides through on a "Doombuggy". It does, however, retain the graveyard scene form the original plans.

Construction of the building was put on hold in 1962, but halted in 1966 when Walt Disney died. The designers were in a quandary as Walt had not finished the planning. For a few years the public could see the frame of the building poking over the construction fence. Urban legends surfaced about how the ride was being re-designed because it was so scary that it supposedly caused a man to have a heart attack. The attraction finially opened in 1969.

While the building was built on property that had no previous construction on it, it did manage to attract someone who had died nearby. In the 1940s a man who had been piloting a small plane crashed in a lake near where the park was to be built later. His ghost has settled into the Haunted Mansion. Referred to by Cast Members (employees) as "the man with the cane" he is often seen late at night, especially after closing.

"The man in a tuxedo" is another spirit, though no one really knows who he is. One day an employee was working in the area where passengers disembark. There is a mirror there, so the attendant can see when the riders come up behind her. She kept seeing a shadow in the mirror, and when she turned around no one was there. The figure seemed to be wearing a tuxedo. Then, she felt a chill and a hand placed on her shoulder. Of course, she turned to find no one there. The woman ran out of the Haunted Mansion and soon quit her job.

There is a legend concerning a woman who wanted to scatter her young son's ashes inside the Haunted Mansion, but was forbidden by Disney officials. She snuck the ashes inside and covertly scattered them. Apparently, this was NOT her son's last wish as since she did that people have sometimes seen the apparition of a crying boy sitting near the exit. Though there have been many stories circulated, one person ever actually died in the Haunted Mansion. Each year Disneyland sponsors "Grad Night", which is for high school seniors. Two teenage boys were riding along in a Doombuggy when one of them decided that he wanted to see the room called "Séance Circle" up close. The young man stepped out on to the black painted walkway that was next to the tracks. What he did not realize was that there was a gap between the walkway and the platform on which the display sat. He stepped off the walkway and plunged fifteen feet to the floor, breaking his neck. "Séance Circle" has been odd since the beginning. A sound designer was setting up equipment in the area before the attraction was open to the public. He kept hearing music coming from behind one of the new walls. He surmised that a radio had been walled up accidentally. After several days the music had never ended and no radio announcer ever came on. The man could never find the source of the sound, so he arranged for a speaker to go in the area and drown it out. There have been many legends associated with the Haunted mansion. If you ever visit, keep your eyes open. You may just spot a real ghost!

Drama University

In the midst of my daydreaming, I thought about this. How about starting a DramaUniversity. This would be a location where everybody have drama in their life come and discuss their matters with peers that have been through the same experience. Like for instance, if you have the crazy, deranged boyfriend that like stalking you, then come to Drama University and talk to one of our counselors that have benn in your position. Then they can allow you to come up with a plan that will get you out of your drama situation (without maiming or killing the counterpart of course).

I even thought of a catch phrase:
Drama University, where you can put your mind at ease and your Drama to rest!

Let me know what yall think.... just something else that makes you go hmmm

Friends that diss you

why do peple that treat you like mud but still wants to still be your friend?

I mean, he/she used you up like a wet food stamp and toss you away like garbage, and expect for you to forget what they have done to you and act like nothing ever happened. I know that the good book teach each other to forgive, but you certainly will not forget what they have dont to you.

How did handle the situation??

What would you do???

what would you do in this situation??

you are friends with a another person who is married. you two can basically talk about anything under the sun and respect each others' relationship. Then one night, it happens. the both of you were weak and you had sex. to you, it was a one-time thing that you regret. however, your friend sees it as an eye-opening experience and asks you if this can continue. Do you continue with the relationship? Do you walk away from the relationship and friendship entirely? Or do you try to salvage your relationship without the sex?

A Cold Heart

I sit here all alone with a cold heart
looking for a way to ease the pain
I know I did nothing wrong but be faithful
but instead you treated me so cold
as if I was a motherless child
I sacrificed tremendously to give you the world
Only for you to use me as a walking doormat.

I made sure that food was on the table
your clothes clean, pressed and ready to wear
even going as far as doing your college papers
so that you can make a passing grade
When I wanted to advance my education
You turned the other cheek
looking for any excuse for me to fail
Yet keeping up the facade in front of my family and friends
to make it appear that you gave a damn

I have to give it to you
You have the gift of gab
Now I see clearly now, the haze is gone
I see a little boy that wants to be like everyone
but not himself

He always said the phrase
"I made you, I created you, I can destroy you"
Well the shoe is on the other foot
I made you a miserable fool
I created you into a beggar
and as I take each step away from you, I am destroying your very existence in my life

Go live within your misery, lies, and greed
I passed my survival test, I dont need you anymore
But don't ever forget the one woman that destroyed your chance of being a man

MadBlast

MadBlast

What Kind of Sex do you have????

SOCIAL SECURITY SEX
Two men were talking. "So, how's your sex life?" "Oh, nothing special. I'm having Social Security sex." "Social Security sex?" "Yeah, you know: I get a little each month, but not enough to live on!"


LOUD SEX
A wife went in to see a therapist and said, "I've got a big problem, doctor. Every time we're in bed and my husband climaxes, he lets out this ear splitting yell." "My dear," the shrink said, "that's completely natural. I don't see what the problem is." "The problem is," she complained, "It wakes me up!"


QUIET SEX
Tired of a listless sex life, the man came right out and asked his wife during a recent lovemaking session, "How come you never tell me when you have an orgasm?" She glanced at him casually and replied, "You're never home!"


CONFOUNDED SEX
A man was in a terrible accident, and his "manhood" was mangled and torn from his body. His doctor assured him that modern medicine could give him back his manhood, but that his insurance wouldn't cover the surgery, since it was considered cosmetic. The doctor said the cost would be $3,500 for "small, $6,500 for "medium, $14,000 for "large." The man was sure he would want a medium or large, but the doctor urged him to talk it over with his wife before he made any decision. The man called his wife on the phone and explained their options. The doctor came back into the room, and found the man looking dejected. "Well, what have the two of you decided?" asked the doctor. The man answered, "She'd rather remodel the kitchen".


WEDDING ANNIVERSARY SEX
A husband and his wife had a bitter quarrel on the day of their 40th wedding anniversary. The husband yells, "When you die, I'm getting you a headstone that reads: 'Here Lies My Wife - Cold As Ever'." "Yeah," she replies, "When you die, I'm getting you a headstone reads: 'Here Lies My Husband - Stiff At Last.'"


WOMEN'S HUMOR
Nora's husband came home with a tube of KY jelly and said, "This will make you happy tonight." He was right. When he went out of the bedroom, she squirted it all over the doorknobs and he couldn't get back in.


A couple is lying in bed. The man says, "I am going to make you the happiest woman in the world." The woman says..... "I'll miss you."

MadBlast

"10 Signs You Might Be Trailor Trash
Your wife's hairdo was once ruined by a ceiling fan.

You've been married three times and still have the same in-laws.

You can't get married to your sweetheart because there's a law against it.

You think loading a dishwasher means getting your wife drunk.

Your toilet paper has page numbers on it.

Somebody hollers 'Hoe Down' and your girlfriend hits the floor.

If a tornado hits your home and causes $10,000 dollars worth of improvement.

Anyone in your family ever died right after saying, 'Hey y'all watch this.'

You think Dom Perignon is a Mafia boss.

You think a woman who is 'out of your league' bowls on a different night. "

Singer 'Babyface' and Wife End Marriage

Yahoo! Groups : MQSEnt

Singer 'Babyface' and Wife End Marriage

NEW YORK — Add Kenny "Babyface" Edmonds (search) and his wife to the growing list of celebrity bust-ups.

Edmonds and his wife Tracey issued a statement Wednesday announcing the end of their marriage after 13 years.

They have two young children. The pair said they had already been unofficially separated "for quite some time."

"It is with deep regret that we announce our permanent separation. We remain best friends," said the couple, who have also produced movies and television shows together, including "Soul Food."

"[We] will continue to work together in our companies, and our various business ventures," the statement said. "More importantly, we are parents of two wonderful children, and will continue to provide a loving, caring and stable environment for them."

Besides his career as a best-selling crooner with hits including "Whip Appeal" and "Change the World" (search), Edmonds has also written top hits for Whitney Houston, Mary J. Blige, Mariah Carey, Bobby Brown and others.

Question

Yahoo! 360 - My Blog

I wanna ask a question out here....

Why is it that some girls like to be a player when they have a good man right there in their hands, but as soon as the guy walks away from the relationship (whether he knew or not that you were playing the field), you get an attitude and thinks that all men are dogs? Is it that you wanted you cake and eat it too? Or did you think that the guy was playing games?

(To all the good men out there, I apologize for the reckless actions of my female counterparts)

playwright August Wilson Dies

Playwright August Wilson, whose epic 10-play cycle chronicling the black experience in 20th-century America included such landmark dramas as "Fences" and "Ma Rainey's Black Bottom," died Sunday of liver cancer, a family spokeswoman said. He was 60.
Wilson died at Swedish Medical Center in Seattle, surrounded by his family, said Dena Levitin, Wilson's personal assistant. The playwright had disclosed in late August that his illness was inoperable and he had only a few months to live.
"We've lost a great writer, I think the greatest writer that our generation has seen and I've lost a dear, dear friend and collaborator," said Kenny Leon, who directed the Broadway production of "Gem of the Ocean" as well as Wilson's most recent play, "Radio Golf," which just concluded a run in Los Angeles.
Leon said Wilson's work, "encompasses all the strength and power that theater has to offer." "I feel an incredible sense of responsibility on walking how he would want us to walk and delivering his work."
Wilson's plays were big, often sprawling and poetic, dealing primarily with the effects of slavery on succeeding generations of black Americans: from turn-of-century characters who could remember the Civil War to a prosperous middle class at the end of the century who had forgotten the past.
The playwright's astonishing creation, which took more than 20 years to complete, was remarkable not only for his commitment to a certain structure — one play for each decade — but for the quality of the writing. It was a unique achievement in American drama. Not even Eugene O'Neill, who authored the masterpiece "Long Day's Journey Into Night," accomplished such a monumental effort.
During that time, Wilson received the best-play Tony Award for "Fences," plus best-play Tony nominations for six of his other plays, the Pulitzer Prize for both "Fences" and "The Piano Lesson," and a record seven New York Drama Critics' Circle prizes.
"The goal was to get them down on paper," he told The Associated Press during an April 2005 interview as he was completing "Radio Golf," the last play in the cycle. "It was fortunate when I looked up and found I had the two bookends to go. I didn't plan it that way. I was able to connect the two plays."
Wilson was referring to "Gem of the Ocean," chronologically the first play in the cycle, although the ninth to be written. It takes place in 1904 and is set in Pittsburgh's Hill District at 1839 Wylie Ave., a specific address that figures prominently, nearly 100 years later, in the last work, "Radio Golf," which premiered in April at the Yale Repertory Theatre.
Pittsburgh, Wilson's birthplace, is the setting for nine of the 10 plays in the cycle ("Ma Rainey's Black Bottom" is set in a Chicago recording studio). Although he lived in Seattle, the playwright had a great deal of affection for his hometown, especially "the Hill," a dilapidated area of the city where he spent much of his youth.
Wilson, a bulky, affable man who always had a story to tell, usually returned to Pittsburgh once a year to visit his mother's grave, but he said he couldn't live there: "Too many ghosts. But I love it. That's what gave birth to me."
Born Frederick August Kittel on April 27, 1945, he was one of six children of Frederick Kittel, a baker who had emigrated from Germany at the age of 10, and Daisy Wilson. A high school dropout, Wilson enlisted in the Army but left after a year, finding employment as a porter, short-order cook and dishwasher, among other jobs. When his father died in 1965, he changed his name to August Wilson.
Wilson was largely self-educated. The public library was his university and the recordings of such iconic singers and musicians as Bessie Smith and Jelly Roll Morton, and the paintings of such artists as Romare Bearden his inspiration.
He started writing in 1965, when he acquired a used typewriter. His initial works were poems, but in 1968, Wilson co-founded Pittsburgh's Black Horizon Theater. Among those early efforts was a play called "Jitney," which he revised more than two decades later as part of his 10-play cycle.
In 1978, he moved to Minnesota, writing for the Science Museum in St. Paul and later landing a fellowship at the Minneapolis Playwrights Center.
In 1982, his play, "Ma Rainey's Black Bottom," was accepted by the National Playwrights Conference at the O'Neill Theater Center in Connecticut. It was there that Wilson met Lloyd Richards, who also ran the Yale School of Drama. Their relationship proved fruitful, and Richards directed six of Wilson's plays on Broadway.
The first was "Ma Rainey," which opened on Broadway in 1984. Wilson's reputation was cemented in 1987 by the father-son drama "Fences," his biggest commercial success. The play, which featured a Tony-winning performance by
James Earl Jones' ran for more than a year.
It was followed in New York by "Joe Turner's Come and Gone" (1988), "The Piano Lesson" (1990), "Two Trains Running" (1992), "Seven Guitars" (1996), "Jitney" (2000), "King Hedley II" (2001) and "Gem of the Ocean" (2004).
Wilson's plays gave steady employment to black actors, not only in New York but in regional theaters, where most of his plays tried out before coming to Broadway. Besides Jones, such well-known actors as Laurence Fishburne, Phylicia Rashad, Angela Bassett,
Charles S. Dutton, Brian Stokes Mitchell, S. Epatha Merkerson, Roscoe Lee Browne and
Leslie Uggams appeared in his plays on Broadway.
"August's work is like reading a rich novel," says Anthony Chisholm, a veteran Wilson performer in such plays as "Gem of the Ocean" and "Radio Golf."
"It conjures up vivid images in the mind, and it makes the actor's job easier because you have something to draw upon to build your character."
Later this month, a Broadway theater, the Virginia, will be renamed for Wilson, a rare honor also bestowed on such theater greats as Eugene O'Neill, Richard Rodgers, George Gershwin, Helen Hayes and Al Hirschfeld.
Wilson, who was married three times, is survived by his wife, costume designer Constanza Romero; their daughter Azula Carmen, and another daughter, Sakina Ansari, from his first marriage.

what is wrong with Washington, DC???

I just came across this information on a site. I want you all to wonder what is wrong with Washington, DC??

The District of Calamity
- The Capitol City all-stars, bubbling with confidence that this year would be their best chance ever to win the regionals and advance to the Little League World Series, found out in June that they were out of the tournament because the District of Columbia Department of Parks and Recreation failed to send in the paperwork on time. [Washington Post, 7-7-05]
- In June, the District of Columbia agency that approves charter schools turned down the Dupont Circle International Academy (a rigorous International Baccalaureate program), citing as one ground that the school will not admit or pass students who perform at below their grade level. The agency's chairman told Washington City Paper, "(A school) has to serve everybody that shows up." [Washington City Paper, 8-5-05]

........ and people want me to move back to the area.. LOL

Long month

hey gang... this has been a really long month for me. I have been stressed out mentally and physically over some recent developments in my life. Granted, it has been hard, but I am making it.

Confessions Sucks

Well I have been going through many things in my life over the past couple of weeks. to start things off, my friend decided to 'tell' a friend (who is now incarcerated) a years-old secret. She basically told him that I liked him when I first met him, and was disappointed in the fact that he went to jail. Of course he was shocked by the information, and wanted me to explain why I didn't tell him before. In my letter to him, I told him that I really did like him, but I did not want to break up the relationship between my ex-hubby and him. (My ex already hates me, so why give him more ammo?) I told him that I will always be his friend no matter what happens. I did warn him that if we became more than just 'friends', will he be able to handle a confrontation with his best friend? Let's see what his answer is going to be?

Supa Head better watch it!

Well I know that everyone has heard about this stupid broad named SupaHead that just released a book. In this book, she is naming people that she had given head to or screwed in her short years as a video vixen. I mean from LL Cool J down to Method Man. Now the rappers are speaking out about this beeotch and they are saying that they never slept with her nor did she give them the bomb head. Now ladies (gents you can get in on this too) I know that all women on this planet is THIS DAMN STUPID! I mean come on! if this chick was a real woman (and we ALL know that she isn't) she would have kept all that shyt to herself. No real woman is going to (a) lie on some dick and (b) going to blab about the crap on an international level. If she wants to prove her skills that bad, tell her that she can call my boy down in the Queen City - Charlotte, NC - and tell him that she wants to prove her skills. He is starting a business called Succulence that is going to portray the art of Fellatio. She wants to be the supreme head giva, she can come holla at me at stormandthunda@yahoo.com or holla at my boy Grey Starks at thetalentedgreygoose@yahoo.com . Come put your money where your mouth is!

My 4th of July Weekend

I hope that everyone had a good 4th of July weekend. now it is back to the long drawn out process of working for the rest of the week.

My 4th of July Weekend

Well my 4th of July went off without a hitch. I was able to get some things done, play with my 2 cats, and chill out and relax. Hope that everyone have a good weekend.

Now I have to go back with the long and drawn out workweek and then retire once again to my abode.

the keys to my heart

The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.

In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved.

You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was insecure and in constant need of reassurance.

Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets.

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.

You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred.

In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily.

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

Does it matter what you believe?

my coworkers like to discuss religion almost everyday. Normally I will stay out the convo, because my views are not what people call 'normal'. I have an open mind, and no matter what religion that you do or don't practice, each person has its own mind.

Let me back this story up a bit. A couple of months ago, we were discussing the days on the calendar from different religions as well as from the US. Of course, the guys wanted to know how did I get that information. I showed them how I created the calendar (the calendar is in a program) and gave them a little insight about each day that I knew, and looked up information that I didn't know and relay the information. Well one of the guys actually thought that I was practicing wichcraft because I knew 'a lot' about the Wiccan religion. I used to have a Wiccan Bible as a reference guide, not to actually practice. I just replied that I wanted to know and then relate that to my Baptist upbringing.

Before people condemn me for being a Satanist, know the facts of ALL religions. I was brought up in a home that preached:
-Jehova's Witness were bad people
(they are taught not to trust no one outside the congregation... not even police)

-Catholic worship idols of saints and the Virgin Mary (cant knock catholics - they have the fastest service, getting drunk is OK, and confessions)

-Islam followed Muhammed - wrong guy (Since I dont know much about it, i dont discuss it)

-Buddists were just wrong, with no explanation (Phil Jackson used the power of the Zen to take the Bulls and the Lakers to Victory)

-atheists were going to hell (they do not believe at all)

-Wiccans are witches (it is the celtic/druid religion from the old country, but I can't find anything in the Bible that says that it is witch craft)

-Voodoo is black magic (oh come on people! does anyone read anymore!)

and Christianity was the right thing to be!

Well the day before, I was looking up the history or vodun, which is the correct term for what the Americas know as voodoo. As far as I knew, this religion corresponds with Catholic traditions. I asked a Hatian friend, who gave me a better insight on the culture (and the turmoil) in Haiti. thanks Will :) I guess that was the icing on the cake for Thomas. I had to name the hater this time around. You can say he kinda insulted me by trying to say that since I look at all religions with an open mind, that I am an excellent subject to follow Satan into into the depths of hell. Don't condemn me because I have an open mind and is the one to ask the burning questions. My yearning to learn created my mind, but it will never shake the foundation of my beliefs. As for Thomas, If he can quit trying to find controversy in everything, then we can all get along.

Bitchology

Had a friend to send this to me. Excuse the terminology; but very good message.

BITCHOLOGY

When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch.

When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch.

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart -- it means I live my life MY way.

It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch.

The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.

It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be.

I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!

So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.

B = Babe

I = In

T = Total

C = Control of

H = Herself

B = Beautiful

I = Intelligent

T = Talented

C = Charming

H = Hell of a Woman

B = Beautiful

I = Individual

T = That

C = Can

H = Handle anything

My first day

This is the first day on my newly created blog.
Each beginning starts with a name. My name is Homewrecker. I have been living in North Carolina since 1996. I am just your average big girl that you may see on the street or in the malls here. I dont dress crazy nor do stupid stuff with my hair. Part of my job is talking to people everyday and trying to fix their problems. I have a cast of characters that I call my friends. They will be renamed as I tell their stories and how I have directly and indirectly affected their lives. Also I will be posting my naughty thoughts, poems, and stories on the blog. If you have any questions, any gripes, any desires, or any thing that is on your mind, my blog is where to put it.